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First Time Mum (Anonymous)

Im a 24 year old first time Mum to a beautiful 3 month old baby boy but Im struggling to come to terms with my new Mummy body!!! I have had one pregnancy and all went well, with a healthy baby born 2 days before due date.

I lost about 20 pounds in the first 2 weeks and I felt great – since then I’ve stayed the same weight and I feel disgusting. I hate my wobbly belly and my chunky thighs, my stretch marks – which are everywhere. I felt beautiful when I was pregnant (despite the 3 stone weight gain) and now I feel like a monster. I want to feel comfortable so I can just enjoy my baby boy. I feel so selfish feeling like this. Its nice to be able to admit how I actually feel.

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  • Nicole Wednesday, June 18, 2014, 8:45 am

    First of all, you look great. Just the way you are. Your thighs have no chunk, lady! But you are also only three months postpartum, go easy on yourself. Try not to let your feeling overwhelm this amazing time. Your body is still healing and will keep changing. Enjoy your beautiful baby.

  • Kyle Wednesday, June 18, 2014, 9:05 pm

    You still have a great waistline and there is still a lot of time to get your diet on track and your body back! You certainly look much better than I do…I dropped 20 lbs in the first week and a half after I delivered and still have a ways to go (30 lbs more)…you look so much better than I do! Have faith, it will come off when you are more active and eat healthy. I can def relate to you tho!

  • Cyn Thursday, June 19, 2014, 1:42 pm

    Wow, you look amazing. Learning to love our bodies is hard. I can see you wanting to lose some more weight, just remember, it took time to gain weight, it will take time to lose it. You are not a monster, just a new mommy, and wanting to look your best is not selfish. Enjoy your son, they grow so fast and try to make time to work-out and eat right!

  • CigLeaf Sunday, June 22, 2014, 4:38 pm

    You look amazing ! You’ll soon get your body and diet back though :)

  • MHD Sunday, June 29, 2014, 6:20 pm

    You look like me and I think I look great! haha. I have had to work very hard to look how I do, so take it from me, you look like a woman who takes great care of herself. You don’t look wobbly at all, although I can sympathize. When I stand up right everything looks like it’s in the right place. It’s when I sit down that the excess skin rolls and folds and feels uncomfortable. It will get better with time, I promise. You will be able to lose weight if you chose to but you look perfect just as your are.

  • Amanda H Sunday, July 13, 2014, 2:10 pm

    You are gorgeous !I love your real womanly curves ! I hope to look like you after i have my baby !

  • Dee Tuesday, July 15, 2014, 8:18 pm

    I know that you may not feel it, but you look absolutely great! Just take your time and don’t forget to take care of yourself. Your body (and belly specifically) is beautiful!

  • Ashley Saturday, August 2, 2014, 6:48 am

    Ummmm, I’m sorry but you guys are crazy for telling her you could see why she wants to lose weight- honey, you seriously look AMAZING. That’s a flawless body you have, I wouldn’t change a single thing about it!! Amazing proportions, and I don’t see a speck of stretch marks or flab ANYWHERE!! You should feel amazing bc I’m telling you, I’m looking right at you and I think u look perfect! Be happy mama, and yes pls enjoy this time with your newborn- it goes so so so fast!!!

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