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My Love, My Life, My Inspiration (Tsi K.)

I have posted previously (here), but did not have the courage to show my face, lol!I decided to go ahead and take the plunge today, after witnessing so many other women doing the same. Childbirth, and indeed motherhood are such beautiful and overwhelming miracles, and oftentimes, I find myself gazing at my little girl and wondering how and why I was chosen to raise and nurture such a beautiful soul.I strive to to be a role model for her, even at her tender age of 2. I know I only have a few precious years to teach her love of self, before she begins to understand, and perhaps be influenced by the the damaging descriptions of the female body that have forced many women and even children to travel down the path of self-disgust and self-hatred. I traveled such a path for many years before I became pregnant, but finally resolved to accept myself the way I was, for fear that I would one day have a daughter, and pass that negativity down to her. Well, God smiled down upon me that day, and I am thankful for it, because now my ‘just in case daughter’ is a beautiful reality, and a daily reminder to love and be kind to myself in order to set a positive example for her. The first picture was taken when I was 9 months pregnant, and then next three were taken within the last week. I have included a picture of my c-section scar, of which I am so proud! Towards the end of my pregnancy I got plenty of stretch marks under my breasts, but only a few on my mid-section (some on each hip bone.)The last picture is of course, my sunshine and reason for being.Thank you to all of the beautiful women who have contributed their stories and their images to this site. There is nothing more powerful than one woman being an inspiration to another, and you have all been an inspiration to me!







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in African American, Back, Cesarean, Cesarean Scar and/or Incision, First Pregnancy, Postpartum, Submissions, Update

11 comments… add one

  • Sarah Thursday, February 14, 2008, 9:07 am

    Dang you look good!!! Your baby is gorgeous!

  • Julie Thursday, February 14, 2008, 9:54 am

    Wow, you look great!

  • Deb Thursday, February 14, 2008, 3:59 pm

    Your baby is one lucky girl to have a such wise mom.

  • mia Thursday, February 14, 2008, 10:34 pm

    You look amazing.. How do you get your stomach to look so tight- good genes or working out?
    your little girl is gorgeous

  • Raven Friday, February 15, 2008, 6:04 am

    holy smokes! you look amazing. You are super lucky. and how can anyone look at your belly with that smile of yours!

  • TsiK Friday, February 15, 2008, 8:06 am

    Thank you for the nice comments :-) I think my tummy is a combination of good genes and working out. I mentioned doing pilates in my previous post, but for the past few months I’ve just been running a few times a week.

  • Alyssa Friday, February 15, 2008, 6:52 pm

    Wow! What a beautiful mom and daughter!

  • charlene Saturday, February 16, 2008, 2:13 pm

    you are so beautiful!! i would never believe you had a baby but either way you’re so gorgeous and so is your baby! she’s gonna grow u to be so pretty like her momma!

  • Rhiann Tuesday, February 19, 2008, 7:38 am

    Wow, i hope i look like that once i’ve had mine!!!! You look truely amazing.

  • Jen Wednesday, February 20, 2008, 3:45 pm

    You look phenomenal! And your little one is a doll, good luck with everything!

  • Lulu Tuesday, May 18, 2010, 1:09 pm

    Oh, wow, you look fantastic! Your daughter has such a sweet smile!

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