I just found out I am pregnant. My friend told me about this site. I know this is terrible to say, but after looking at all the posts, instead of being completely crazed with excitement, I’m terrified about stretch marks, massively huge nipples, a flabby a** or stomach…oh, God, I just want to look normal after. I’m absolutely, completely terrified now. I know I’ll be told “it’s worth it when your child arrives,” but I admit…I’m a vain person. I work hard now to have a good body, I eat well…I feel attractive. I already love my child beyond words, but this is truly disturbing me. How do I deal?