I was 14 when I had my first baby, a boy. My love for him was so strong, the bond we shared was built on the understanding between us that we would say goodbye to one another and the faith that we would meet again.I became a birth mother. Every thought I have, He is there echoing each one. I am now almost 22 years old and 24 weeks pregnant with another boy. the emotions I feel with this baby are so different. I know that this time I will watch him grow, his father and I. I will change his diaper and soothe his cries. I will be there to see him smile for the first time, and it will be me he smiles at! I will help him take his first steps, I will know the sound of his laughter and He will call ME Mother….My Samuel….God has heard.
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Hi, I wandered onto your site today and had to say that what you are doing is very awesome! I wrote about your site today and my own thoughts on the matter and linked over to you. I hope you check it out. I also hope it was okay I put your belly picture up there on my site beside the link to you. Thank you soo much for doing this!! It is wonderful.
You gave someone THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIFT that ANYONE could ever give. :)
God bless you for giving birth to your first baby boy. May this new baby bring you much joy!
You are a true mother for the love you had in your heart for your son. You made a wonderful sacrfice for your child and I’m sure he will be proud to call you his mother someday. Bless you with your second one, and may you have a happy and healthy pregnancy and enjoy the time together.
What a beautiful story! God Bless you for giving someone the chance to be a mother to your son. You look and sound so happy!
beautiful. i considered adoption, too, and very seriously, might i add. may this pregnancy and birth be a glorious moment as it was the first time for you.
May God bless you in return for the wonderful gift you gave your first-born son. Wishing you a wonderful second pregnancy and delivery. You look wonderful.
What a touching story! I wish you much happiness for the future.
I cried when I read your post. I am an adoptive mother and had no idea of the depth of sacrifice of some birth mothers. God Bless you!
I just wanted to say “Thank You” to you, the Birth Mom. I am an Adoptive Mom and the gift that we received, boy/girl twins, is beyond words. I think I can speak for most Adoptive parents when I say “Thank You” for all the sacrifices you made during your pregnancy and the choice you made to carry your baby to term. Congratulations on your second pregnancy and I wish you God’s blessings as you prepare for this baby and parent this little boy.
as an adoptee who has the unique joy of being loved by two mothers, just wanted to say I admire your courage and the truly unselfish love that you must have felt for your son to ensure that he had the best possible chance in life. you are an inspiration. wishing you every happiness!
As someone who is hoping for the miracle you so lovingly gave to a set of parents when you were 14– I wish you all the best and a wonderful rest of this pregnancy with a happy, healthy baby boy.
Wow! I want to say first of all, at fourteen you became a birth mother and gave a family the ultimate gift. That’s amazing!
Second of all, yes. God has heard! He has blessed you with yet another son! God is so good!!! Thank you for sharing your story! You look so lovely!