I have posted a pic on here before, but it was only of my stomach, no boobs and no bum…that is the last picture incase nobody can figure out what the hell it is!! I put on 30kg while pregnant and have worked my butt off loosing 20kg of it to help prepare for the next time (we are trying to concieve number two now)

I am proud of my weightloss but unfortunatley, like pregnancy, it has done nothing to help my body, the more weight i loose, the more skin that sags and this is what has happened to my bum, the skin from my back overhangs..

I am still comming to terms with my new body, but i dont have any regrets and sites like this make that journey so much better.

My son is now 11months and as i said we are trying to concieve, im wonder alot what the next pregnancy will do to my body, will i stretch again and so have more skin or will i just fill in all the skin here now so stay the same?! time will tell and i cant wait :)

13 thoughts on “Anonymous

  • Monday, January 15, 2007 at 2:50 pm

    I just had to comment on your post because I was reading your post thinking hmmm.. that looks quite a lot like my stomach, and my 2 year old walked in and pointed to the screen saying “Mummy’s tummy” – hehe. You are not alone!

    p.s. good luck with TTC!

  • Tuesday, January 16, 2007 at 2:15 pm

    You are beautiful. And that gorgeous baby you are holding is testimony….


  • Tuesday, January 16, 2007 at 8:43 pm

    I find that even now, when my youngest is 3 years old, that my body is still just getting back to normal little by little. Your baby is only 11 months and you are havin another so I would not worry one bit about everything getting back to its place until you are all done having kids and breastfeeding and all that stuff. It happens so slowly you might now even notice it.

  • Tuesday, January 16, 2007 at 9:46 pm

    I agree with the others.

    You are beautiful!

    Your body is beautiful. (honest)

    Your kid is gorgeous!


  • Wednesday, January 17, 2007 at 12:25 pm

    Is the third picture taken from behind (your butt) or from the front?

  • Thursday, January 18, 2007 at 2:28 am


    I’m not the original poster, but I’m fairly certain that the 3rd picture is taken from behind. It’s the back of her knees, then her butt, then the overhang of loose back skin.

    In Britain, bum=butt. If it were from the front then she would have written “fanny”.

  • Thursday, January 18, 2007 at 10:52 am

    You have my tummy!!

  • Thursday, January 18, 2007 at 11:38 am


    It’s from the back.

  • Sunday, January 21, 2007 at 2:20 am

    hey all, thanks for the nice comments..its amazing what this site do for you esteem :)

    yes the third pic is unfortunatly my butt lol :)

    cant wait to post pics of my next pregnancy, im so intregued as to what my body will do next time!

  • Sunday, January 21, 2007 at 9:20 am

    my husband was peeking over my shoulder and he said ,” you finally posted a pic of yourself” lol i said no thats not me lol, but we could be body twins.

  • Wednesday, January 24, 2007 at 6:02 pm

    I just want to say you are so beautiful! And your son, is he a little cutie pie :-)

    GL on TTC !!

  • Monday, December 8, 2008 at 7:37 am

    You are so Beautiful! I too put on 30 Kilo when i was pregnant because i was soooo depressed my husband was not with me and I just ate, I was 18 and I didnt even know anything about strecth marks I wish someone had told me to stop eating! Before i got pregnant I was 58 Kilo a few days before I gave birth I was 88 Kilo. I just wanted to say that I think you are wonderful you have a lovely little angel and you are soooo blessed and your little boy is sooo lucky to have such a caring mother GOD bless you.

  • Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 9:14 am

    I have the same exact thing, I was heavier for a year or two in high school and when I dropped the weight I got that butt triangle.(That’s what my sister calls it… she looks like a super model and is 15 just now)I’m currently 13 weeks pregnant and we’re so happy.(my whole family and my husband to be)Up until around last year I spent lots of time and effort trying to change or ‘conceal’ the squishy mass of over the butt skin…I finally accepted it as part of my body and wouldn’t you know, it started to go away. Which has taught me that acceptance is a lot like a magic ticket to happiness and often comes with great rewards.Not that you should just accept terrible things like abuse or anything like that mind you. Just the positive acceptance. Lots of love. Baby dust and luck- Miss.

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