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First time around at 30 years old we lucked out and got twinkies! I had a great pregnancy and emergency c-section but everything was and is great with the kids. We have also been exclusively breastfeeding and loving it! I love being a momma and this site has been a wonderful place to come and share. Thanks everyone for being so brave and sharing! BTW these pictures are from two days before birth – we went 37 weeks!!

With my first, I had an emergency c-section. He was a big baby with a ton of fluid; I was huge (or so I thought.) After he was two months old I realized I would never look the same. I was wrinkly and with a small bulge. Fast forward seven years of ensuring my stomach was covered and a twin pregnancy later. I was truly huge. I had scabs all over my stomach as my stomach grew. I was awesomely large and a force to be reckoned with. They were born via c-section at 39 weeks 4 days. I nursed, rather NURSE them exclusively since they were an hour old. My body has changed and I will never be the same but I have three beautiful, healthy children to THANK for my wondrous body.

Last June our third daughter, Abby Angel, was born and died. One year and two weeks later I gave birth to our fourth daughter, Charlotte Faith. She arrived perfect, healthy, and beautiful and we know that she is Abby’s gift to our family. Her first moments of life outside my body were spent in my arms, with her head resting near the tattoo of Abby’s footprint over my heart. This was my last pregnancy so the belly pictures are so precious to me. I especially love the ones with my husband’s arms around me! These particular belly pictures were taken when I was 38 weeks, just 10 days before Charlotte was born.

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I had my first child at the age of 17. I was approx 8 1/2 stone before pregnancy and weighed in at nearly 12 stone on my last antenatel appointment! I gave birth 3 and half weeks early to a little boy who weighed 7lbs 3ozs. The extra weight that i gained during pregnancy seemed to ‘fall off’ and i was happy with the way i looked after having him. I was 19 when i fell pregnant with my second child and again i was approx 8 and half stone pre pregnancy. I gained about 2 and hlaf stone with this pregnancy and she was born weighing 7lbs 5ozs. Again the weight came off easily and i was happy. I then fell pregnant with my third child at the age of 21. I gained only 2 stone and he was born weighing 7lbs 10ozs. I felt after this pregnancy that the weight was harder to ‘shift’. I concentrated on loosing the weight and after about 5mths i was back to my pre pregnancy weight but was left with a ‘baggy belly’. I was happy with three children as i had 3 under the aged of 4 and it was hard work. I was still managing to work part time aswell as i love my job and it is very important to me to get those 20hours to myself. When i found out i was pregnant with my fourth child it came as quite a shock to both myself and my partner. We worried about the financial side of things and the work load as m youngest was only 9 mths. The pregnancy was the hardest of them all as i continued to work up to being 37 weeks and still had the other 3 to look after. My blood pressure went up towards the end of the pregnancy i was very tired. I weighed just under 8 and half stone pre pregnancy and gained just under 2 stone. I gave birth to another little girl and she weighed 7lbs 10ozs. I was extremly happy as we now had 2 boys and 2 girls! My stomach after birth was the worst it had ever been even though my waist seemed to be there i had a ‘bulge’ in the centre. It took a few weeks to go down and again the weight has dropped off. I now weigh 8 stone 4lbs and i am very happy with my body after giving birth to 4 children. I am not denying that my boobs have not drooped or that i have no stretch marks because i do. I got my stretch marks with my first child on my stomach probably due to the excessive weight gain but none from my other pregnancies. These pictures that i have posted are of me 3mths after giving birth to my fourth child. I have no confidence in my boobs but no other part of my body bothers me. The stretch marks on my belly are precious to me because they show that i have grown four gorgeous healthy children. They are my life and everything i do is for them. I love being a mother and would never change it for the world. I just wish that the people who comment on the amount of children that i have and my age would keep their opinions to themselves. Yes it is hard work but both myself and my partner work to provide for them and i am very happy.

Update

I struggled with my weight all my life. Raised by a single mom who worked two jobs, my diet consisted of mac n’ cheez and Little Debbies. By 19, at 5’3″, I weighed 170 pounds and was pushing into plus sizes. I did the Weight Watchers thing before marrying my high school sweetheart in 2001 at 21. That helped me lose about 35 pounds, but I was still unhappy. When I got pregnant with my first daughter in 2001, I was terrified of what the pregnancy would do to my body. I gained about 30 pounds, back to the weight I was before Weight Watchers, ugh! But something beautiful happened within me during pregnancy and after giving birth. I realized, this body isn’t just for showing off anymore, nor has it ever been. I decided to make changes for my DAUGHTER, not for me. Whatever body image I had, I would pass on to her. Did I want her to live in a relationship of hatred to the body she inhabited, as I had all my life? NO! I immediately began changing the way I thought about myself, the way I judged myself, pulling at wrinkles of fat around my waist in the mirror. Instead, I began loving me. I adopted a vegetarian lifestyle, began working out, STOPPED saying the “F” word (you know which one I mean, the one BAD word women use WAY too much), and began choosing a more positive route, for me and future generations of women. Guess what. Today, after 2 daughters, I weigh … heck, I don’t know!! One step in accepting ME for ME was getting rid of those stupid judgemental scales! What’s more important is – I’m happy with who I am. I do yoga, run, lift weights, haul two kids around in a bike cart. I use my body and my words about my body positively. After all, all I have to do is look at my beautiful daughters and know, my body must be good to do something like that!

I’ve just celebrated my very first Mother’s Day. Before this day I thought I knew what it was to be a mother. All of a sudden I felt connected, connected to all other Mothers, all other Children, and the Earth. I am a Creator of Life. This body has been used and abused and neglected but has done a noble thing. It grew a child. This imperfect body, grew a perfect life. It took all its goodness and passed it on to my son, my beautiful baby boy, who brings joy to my world every day. There is no question my body is different than it was before I was pregnant. Like aging, we wear our life experience outwardly as well as inwardly. We grow laugh lines, grey hair and age spots. These are signs of the life we have experienced. My body has stretch marks, extra skin, bigger but less firm breasts, all of these are signs of the life it grew inside it. Like a rite of passage, I will wear these signs with courage and pride. Thank you to all the brave and noble women who have posted on this site. Thank you for helping me to feel good about myself. My photos are 39 weeks pregnant and 7 months post partum. I gained only 17 lbs during my pregnancy and lost all but a couple of pounds within a few weeks. I’ve gained back about 10 pounds and don’t want to worry too much about it until after I’ve finished breastfeeding – which by the way, I love so much I can’t imagine not doing it anymore!

Thank god for your website! I live in a european country that almost condones [condemns?] big women after having babies, simply by the advertising and the way in which the locals here are built. I’m not from here and find it hard to adjust physically. I’ve had two kids only 18mths apart and am yet to recover physically! Am currently 4mths post-partum. Still breastfeeding and craving dark chocolate madly! try to exercise when I can (when being the operative word as I have very little time for myself!) and eat as healthy as I can. But…. still bigger than I ever use to be, hubby not so celebratory of my body. Doesnt really say much and when I cover myself up and apologise (cause my tummy sticks out or whatever) he just says “its ok”….?! hes a local so use to slim women! so sad. desperate and alone.

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