(Anonymous)

Hello, I want to THANK YOU for your blog, I actually stumbled across it when I was researching what the heck these bumps on my nipples were! I seriously thought I was the only one that had this tummy! Although I have yet to see a tummy as bad as mine (I still have a few months of posts to read through). I am the proud mother of 3. Before my first I was a tiny 100 pound teen. Baby #1 was born when I was 17 and weighed 8 pounds 15 ounces Baby #2 was born when I was 19 and weighed 9 pounds 8 ounces Baby #3 was born when I was 21 and weighed 8 pounds 13 ounces While I was pregnant with Baby One I noticed a bump next to my belly button and was told it was a umbilical hernia. I still have it and it doesn’t hurt me, it’s just ugly. My belly button never went back in but it’s all hidden by the large amount of extra skin I have. After my third was born I consulted my doctor about my tummy and was told that my stomach muscles tore in half and were on repairable with surgery (abdominoplasty/tummy tuck). I hope to someday have that fixed but that also means no more babies so I am waiting until we decide what we want to do for our family. I get very depressed about my body and cry often when I see myself in the mirror, I can’t even change in front of my husband because I don’t want him to see…. I would never change a thing because being a mother to these beautiful children is more important. Thanks for taking the time to read my story, your site is helping me heal and I hope I can get over this and someday be more comfortable in front of my husband. Photo one show how the extra skin lays when I am laying down. Photo two shows my “belly button” and the hernia above it. Photo three is a front on view of my tummy when I am standing.





Changes (Anonymous)

Previous entry here.

I have always been insecure about my body, even when I was in the best shape of my life. People always called me fat, for whatever reason they had and I never realized that I wasn’t or how good I really looked. Since I put on some weight when I was pregnant that has yet to come off, I don’t look nearly as good as I used to, and no one has called me fat anymore. It’s funny how people work. I don’t think about my body so much anymore, my boyfriend is very supportive of my looks, and I’m not looking to attract anyone else. I am happy with our little family and the family of sag and stretch marks that live on my belly. Here are some pictures of me, 2 years pre-preg, 1 year pre-preg, 1 month pre-preg, 8 months pregnant, 2 weeks PP, 1 month PP, and now, 5 months PP










1st Pregnancy and I loved it (Rachel)

I am a long time visitor but have yet to get the guts up to contribute. First let me say I loved being pregnant and I can’t stop bothering my husband about getting started with the second. While I am generally happy about my body post partum, I do complain about random stretch marks on my booty (hence the boy shorts which have become a close friend). My husband thinks I am as beautiful as ever and tells me all the time. He says being a mother seperates you from just being a woman. In the pics you will find a 12 and 16 week pic (some of my belly pics from the pregnancy) and some pics we took today. The pics today are just over a year post partum. God Bless!









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Mom of 3 (Anonymous)

12 years ago I started on my journey of motherhood. I now have 3 children and a body that has a few imperfections. Until I found this site, I never really took pride in it. Now I look at it and I realize that this body brought life to 3 beautiful kids. I love the shape of my body and my husband really loves it. In fact, I asked him to take these photos and he could concentrate on the picture taking. He wanted to get started on baby #4.




Tiny Dancer (Anonymous)

I spent years learning to dance and perform. Ballet, jazz and modern dance as a child and as I got older training alongside some of the best known circus performance artists at a specialized gym. I always wanted to be a model but at barely 5’1 I found work but not in the fashion industry. Working as a dancer and pt adult model left me with a very vanity driven sense of worth. If I were thin, toned and tanned I wouldn’t have a care in the world. I was miserable spending 8 hours a night working in a hustler club to support such a frivolous lifestyle. Six years in the industry left me tired and in need of a new life. On august 28 2007 I sobbed in my bathroom over my third positive pregnancy test. I was 23 years old and I was divorcing my junky musician husband. I had been drinking a lot, and obviously not taking enough precaution. Months later I have reached 38 weeks. I wont tell you I love my expanding body. I appreciate its ability to modify, adapt and produce human life. There isn’t a night that I don’t dream of fluidly moving my weightless form in one-way or another. This baby is the light at the end of my tunnel. Without it I would have never slowed down enough to find the man of my dreams, he would never have had the chance to show me what a little unconditional love could do. I look forward to the birth of our little boy/girl. To spread my new wings. Teach them and guide them in everything I myself fell short of. But most of all I cant wait to hold my little one in my arms and dance.




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2 years PP (Anonymous)

I was 18 when i had my daughter. i gained over 75lbs. My daughter was born at 9lbs 5oz. i’m having a very hard time accepting my PP body. my husband keeps telling me that my body is beautiful, but i don’t believe him. i lost all the baby weight within 4 months. i don’t have issues with the stretch marks or my weight, it’s the saggy skin.





My Mommy Belly (Anonymous)

I had my baby boy 1.5 years ago, at the age of 26. He was a big boy, weighing nearly 10 lbs which made for a much more difficult labour than I anticipated. It ended up 2 days later in a C-section which I actually really liked. Relief. I found pregnancy to be much harder than i thought it would be, i had no idea my back would hurt so badly. When my son was born, I was shocked to realize that I did not love him immediately as so many people say. However this love grew and by the time he was 6 months old, I loved him so much. My love continues to grow and I just believe he is the most precious and adorable boy out there:) I started about at 155lbs and ended up gaining 32 lbs. I got the stretch marks on my belly at 38 weeks. I was really worried about them but at this point, i like how they make my stomach look like a mommy stomach. I have lost almost all the weight, just 5 lbs extra which is fine with me. My breasts are another story. I did not expect the engorgement when my milk came in and to go up 3 sizes overnight did not make my breasts any better in the end. Overall though, I did love breastfeeding so it is worth it. I love this site and I appreciate how people are willing to bare their bodies to help other women deal with theirs. For now, I do not feel brave enough to bare much, but here is my mommy belly with its lines.