Just make what you have sexy!! (Deflated mom of 4)

I have been really depressed over the years about my body. I have always been small chested, not even a full A cup. I have had four children. Breast fed the youngest past a year old. My cup size ranged from a before pregnant to probably a DD. Then back down to a 30B (technically a typical A cup) after weaning. I always thought there was something wrong with my breasts because bras never fit right. Wait! it was the bras that were the wrong size. Nobody ever taught me that! Finally realized I was a 30 band size and that changed everything.(american eagle bras fit me great!) I still dont like how they hang and are deflated. Sometimes I get really depressed about it. I dont feel like a woman a lot of the time. But then I have to realize that I shouldn’t base my self esteem on what i think others view me as. I started working out hard. It helped lift the breasts a little. Why can’t deflated be sexy too?

~Age: 37
~Number of pregnancies and births: 4
~The age of your children, or how far postpartum you are: youngest is two oldest is an adult.

One thought on “Just make what you have sexy!! (Deflated mom of 4)

  • Monday, June 20, 2016 at 12:24 am

    Hey im not sure if this help but ill tell you what ive experienced. :) first im 22, married, with 2 kids i have a 4 years old (almost 5) and a 2 year old (almost 3) and before i had kids i didnt have a big chest but it wasnt too small either. I was 36B and then not long after i got pregnant i was a C and then as soon as i got milk i went a little bigger than a DD then after i stopped breastfeeding i went to a 34C. I have no fat on me so i have saggy skin everywhere and my husband loves my breast more now than he did before we has kids. (Sorry if its TMI im just trying to let you see if from his eyes) but he likes them now and thinks they are extremely sexy because he canove them and they arent perky and firm. He like to pull mmine together and before he couldnt do that. He believes im more sexy because of all my skin and stretch marks because i was able to create someone they we both love. :) never met a better man. <3

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