This is me right now. My 3rd baby is nearly 6 months old and my body is shot to hell. My first two gave me stretch marks, but my third, a big bouncing boy, was so big he required a cesarian, which has left me with a nice scar and an embarassing flap. I know I can work off the fat (eventually!) but the flap will always be with me.
I’ve had two cesareans and too have a “flap” the more weight you looses the smaller it gets. I was told that it would never go away, perhaps not completely, but it’s nothing a tight pair of pants or pantie hoe with control top can’t handle. I’m pregnant again only this will be my last, so I’m going to have an tummy tuck this time as a treat. Good luck to you!!:)