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3 Years PP, Just Accepting Myself (Anonymous)

February 9, 2012

Hello ladies! First of all thanks for reading this, and thank god for this site!

I am now 3 yrs pp, and I absolutely have to say time DOES heal! At least for me, and I hope it does for you too. I had a very good pregnancy, I gained a lot of weight but was healthy and so was my baby. On my 9th month I started getting my stretch marks.. At first I thought it was the pants (LOL) since I really couldn’t see under my belly… But sure enough they grew ALL OVER.

After the baby, I weighed around 165 I am now 145 (I’m 5’4) so I still have a couple of pounds to loose but its been a LONG way and it’s not until now that’s I’m starting to accept my body. I was only 18 when I had my son and after I would get so depressed, just looking at my body and seeing everyone else so fit and skinny. I would cry for everything cause I was not happy with myself.. I didn’t even want to have sex anymore cause I thought how can I possibly feel sexy looking like this? Half of the time I was mad at my bf for no reason I would always complain and I never felt confident..

I’ve since got on a diet and started to lose weight and exercise and it’s been the best medicine!! My body is looking better although truth is it’s never gonna look how it did or how I want it too! But I’ve come to realize IT’S OKAY!! my boyfriend loves me and doesn’t mind and it took me a while but now I’m starting to not mind either. As much I hate my stretch marks I am thankful to my body for making such a healthy baby! If that’s what it had to do, stretch so much so he could fit LOL and be healthy than that’s fine.

I think confidence it’s sexy, and like I read in another post… Fake til you make it!! Feel confident in your own skin! Cause honey, When it comes down to intimacy I think the last thing your hubby is gonna be into is your stomach :) lol

I’ve started to use strivectin I thi k it’s the name, i know they sell it at sephora but I bought mines at marshalls for $60 bucks I still have to see if it helps… Tanning also helps I need to do that.

I wish I had a picture of my belly when my stretch marks were still purple but these are of now. (I’ve lost weight and exercised but I know it’s gonna be a long time before I loose my little old wrinkly flab) lol
In the one with the blue undies you can see them better..

Age: 21
Pregnancys/births: 1
Age: 3

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5 Responses to “3 Years PP, Just Accepting Myself (Anonymous)”

  1. shannon Says:
    February 10th, 2012 at 8:00 pm

    I hope I can have your confidence someday. You look beautiful. You should be confident! Great work :)

  2. Emma Says:
    February 11th, 2012 at 9:41 pm

    I too am just starting to accept myself, 2 years postpartum. You look great! Also, I have those same flowered undies :)

  3. Kaitlyn Says:
    February 12th, 2012 at 7:16 pm

    Hot mama!

  4. Sarah Says:
    February 13th, 2012 at 3:31 pm

    You look great! Reading your story actually makes me feel a lot better, its nice to know that its possible to get that confidence back! :)

  5. Vero Says:
    March 27th, 2012 at 6:58 pm

    Thanks for the post it really makes me feel like there is hope!!

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