Sweetheart your body is beautiful. Your husband should love you for you, not just for your body. And your boobs are right where they should be for their size, mine are there too and mine won’t shrink when I’m done breastfeeding, they’ve been a DD at least, since I was 15. It’s just the way I’m built. Your body did an amazing thing. You brought life in to the world and you feed your child with your body. You are amazing and beautiful just the way you are and if your husband can’t see that he doesn’t deserve you. PS. I personally don’t believe in divorce either, but there are certain circumstances where even God would understand (like when a spouse is physically/mentally abusive, or when they commit adultery. And as the child of parents who did not love each other, who always fought sometimes physically and who were so obviously unhappy I just want to let you know that staying with someone for no other reason than because you have children hurts your children more than divorce. Even before I ever saw my parents fight I knew they weren’t happy. I used to pray that they would get divorced and move on. I hated seeing my mother cry because she was miserable, and that affected my relationship with my dad because I was mad at him for treating my mother the way he did and for cheating on her all the time. My brother on the other hand started to blame our mother for how dad treated her. He thought she deserved it because she stayed with him. Luckily (as far as I know) my brother does not treat his wife badly. And lucky for me my husband is not like my father. But anyway my point is that children suffer just as much as their parents do.
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