my pregnancy was a big surprise to me and the father, when i told him he broke up with me but we got back together a week later…big mistake Throughout the whole time i was pregnant i felt alone, going to doctors appts alone, shopping for the baby alone, feeling happy alone. Sure we were together but he was not there for me! He didn’t understand pregnancy at all and all the aches and pains i had along with it. He would throw in my face” well you shouldn’t have gotten pregnant then” for the whole 9 months and afterwards.My mom would always ask me why i wasn’t happy, she would say cause i’m young and having a baby, but it was hard to be happy when i felt like crap. Her father was there for the birth and 3 months after, since i told him i was pregnant it went downhill and fast, so he left when she was 3 months, he does still see her but its funny cause he sees her more now, (which is only 16 hours a week,) then before when he was living with me, maybe cause he was never home and always sleeping or out smoking pot. After all that stress and shitty ness he brought apon me i couldn’t be happier then i am right now.I’m single,going back to school and have the help of friends and family whenever i need
Same d@^^ thing happened to me…but years later, I am married to a wonderful guy, we have our own child (he was a surprise too, but my husband NEVER said it was my fault, though he had to deal with me ASSUMING it was) and he was wonderful all through the pregnancy. I’m friendly enough with my ex, although he’s gone on to do this to other girls (and why is it OUR fault when he won’t wear a condom??)
Being a single mum is hard, but dont worry, your not alone- there are sooo many single mums out there including me- i’m also in University too. And to be quite honest i actually enjoy being single because i have noone to answer to but my baby and sometimes “my own MUM” You have a gorgeous pregnant belly, no stretch marks and i’m sure you had a beautiful baby to go with it!
thanks so much i was lucky enough to get no marks until after but even then very few, i agree with you megan about having no one to answer to .LOL