Are you serious?! I would KILL to have a body like yours; your husband must be psycho! I have been married for 5 years and I have never been comfortable with my body since my teenage years. I’m 23 and I have 3 boys all under the age of 3 (all seperate pregnancies) and I wish I can look half as good as you do. Looking at your photos I would never think you had a child. Looking at my stretchmarks you would think I had 6 kids :(. It’s harder to try loving yourself when your husband doesn’t help with showing affection and attraction. My husband has never told me anything negative about my body and he always wants attention and sex. He always compliments me, yet I will never stand naked in front of him because he’s never acknowledged my scars and told me he can care less. I love him to death and I stay strong because he does love me and does everything else for me–its my self consciousness that I have to work on myself. You are beautiful and you have given birth to two children. If he doesn’t appreciate you and what you’ve done, someone else out there will. Give him a chance and some time. But if there’s no improvement don’t waste your time honey.