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Saggy Boobs (Anonymous)

February 28, 2008

First of all, this site is amazing! I’m pretty happy with my body after having two babies, really my only problem is my boobs. Before I got pregnant with my first baby at 19 I was a good full 34C, now, I still wear a 34C, but it is one of those push-ups from VS so pretty much everything that is inside the bra is padding. My son was born at 30 weeks and never learned to nurse so I pumped for him for 6 months until I dried up. The problem though, is that no one ever told me to regulate what I was pumping, so at one point I was pumping 12 oz every 3 hours and my boobs where HUGE and very, very stretched out. They are covered in silvery white stretch marks and are very saggy. Other than the stretch marks on my boobs I have a few on my hips, but those are silvery white as well. I didn’t have that hard of a time losing the weight, but I am still 2 pants sizes bigger than I was at 18 when I got married. Sometimes I wish I was 110lbs and a size 6 again, but some days I’m OK with my body. My husband loves the way I look now, he loves the curves and the saggy boobs and the big hips, so that makes it easier for me to look at myself and be OK. He’s the only one I need to impress and he loves my body, he says I look like a women now instead of a teenager. Here are a few pictures of me. The first one is from when I first found out I was pregnant with my daughter (my second baby), the second picture is me 35 weeks pregnant with her (I had her a few days later at 36 weeks), and the last two pictures are from today, 23 months pp and 5 weeks pregnant with baby #3 (I’m pretty sure I am pregnant but I haven’t had a positive home test yet, my hormones don’t rise like they should when I’m pregnant, that’s the reason I had my son at 30 weeks and had hormone therapy with my daughter and had her at 36 weeks, I go in a few days to find out for sure if I am pregnant)







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12 Responses to “Saggy Boobs (Anonymous)”

  1. Jeanie Says:
    February 28th, 2008 at 8:12 am

    Thats great you have a supporting husband, mine feels the same. He enjoys my new “womanly” figure. Believe it or not, it has actually improved our sex life! Oh, the last image doesnt seem to work?

  2. tiamama Says:
    February 28th, 2008 at 8:45 am

    Those are my boobs too!!! I was also HUGE while nursing. A good bra is my BEST FRIEND!

  3. Sarah Says:
    February 28th, 2008 at 1:36 pm

    You look great! Congratulations on #3! :)

  4. Sarah Says:
    February 29th, 2008 at 9:47 am

    Those are my breasts, too–I am proud to say! I have been nursing my daughter for fifteen months now… that’s what they look like now that she is starting to wean and they are not full of milk so often. However, my breasts never got very big. I was a Barely A when I got pregnant, went up to a size B while pregnant and after my milk came in, and am now in an A size… so similar is the right word. They certainly are not too perky, but I don’t care. I love them. =)

  5. Sarah Says:
    February 29th, 2008 at 9:49 am

    Oh I meant to congratulate you. I bet you are pregnant! Congrats! Update us when you can.

  6. Leigh Says:
    February 29th, 2008 at 10:53 am

    My boobs are thanks to a padded push-up bra now too! I had premature twins, and I pumped 12 oz every 3 hours too, until they started to nurse at 2 mos. That’s a whole bunch of water and food intake to make that much milk! You go, girl! You look great!

  7. Daniel Says:
    April 16th, 2009 at 11:33 pm

    i think all of theis girls have nothing to worry about they look great to me

  8. jr Says:
    June 24th, 2009 at 4:57 am

    Hey I am a guy and sincerely think you look gorgeous
    and beautiful in your last picture with your quote on
    quote “saggy” breasts. Can’t explain it, just think
    you look that much more beautiful and have always
    felt far more attracted and turned on by women who
    present like this after pregnancy. Don’t know if it’s
    the modest or experience thing but truly think this
    is what makes women beautiful and won’t get into
    all the psychodynamics… My wife, the same thing
    after she gave birth, and actually used the double
    breast pump; She has become more self-conscience
    about her appearance; I always tell her how turned on
    by her and wish she really knew it. You look great!

  9. anonomous male Says:
    February 10th, 2011 at 8:16 am

    Hello ladies. I’m writing this comment to let u ALL know look good. No matter shape, form or size of your breast u all have exquisite and unique beauty from within. I’m a married father of two. I’ve been with my wife for ten yrs and thru the course of those ten yrs her body has under gone dramatic changes, having kids and up & down weight struggles. Thru it all I dont Critize, judge or condem and honestly I’m attracted to her “milfly” shape and body over ur traditional model, actress or porn star. I find it attractive for women to have oddly shaped or saggy breast. The point of this article is to let you women know that ur all beatiful and should be recognized in society for sacrificies and the struggles u go thru day in and day out to maintain ur beauty and trying to feel good about urselfs. Just know that ALL men aren’t dogs and that there are actually good men out there that aren’t always concerned with looks. Continue to be strong ladies thru it all. We love you and never give up hope.

    -anonomous good man

  10. Jess Says:
    February 16th, 2011 at 7:03 pm

    I don’t think your breasts look bad at all.

  11. Cindi Says:
    July 29th, 2011 at 1:44 pm

    My husband just told me yesterday he hates my breasts. His revelations came out of nowhere. We have three daughters together and he knows I have been a bit unhappy with the way my breasts look now. They are saggy and don’t look at all the way they used to. I went from a 38D to a 34 B (VS padded bra)after kids. I feel so hurt because I breatsfed all of my kids. I asked him yesterday why he was not attracted to me anymore,for 10 years, he had been telling me “you have beautiful breasts. But I noticed that even when I am naked, he does not look at me. But when he sees other women with perky breasts, he lust at the sight of their breasts. He never has the same reaction with me. I feel so cheated, and lied to. I used to trust him so much but now, I wonder who that person is. I have been crying since yesterday because I feel as though my trust has been broken and the one person who is supposed to love me regardless of how I look despises my breasts. Isn’t he supposed to love all of me? I am a size 0. He has complained about my weight since we have been married when he knows about my struggles to gain weight. If it was up to me I would chose to be a size bigger, but I can’t seem to gain weight even though I try so hard to gain some pounds. I have looked the same all my life. I am just so hurt. Saggy breasts are not within my control. It is nature, I did not chose them, but I feel as though he might cheat on me because my breasts are saggy.

  12. Sunil Says:
    August 8th, 2011 at 4:23 am

    I love your boobs

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