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Proud Mother of 3 (Ash)

November 28, 2011

age 24
3 pregnancies 3 births ages 3,1,and 4 months
4 months pp

I was married at 19 to my husband who was 17 a year later we had our first then a year after that my second child, then 3 months after giving birth to her I got pregnant with my third who I gave birth to 4 months ago. I have 2 sons and a daughter. I am very confident! I wasn’t always like this is took alot of time to myself thinking about things and realizing what was more important. I am saddened to see all the women on the site so mean to themselves and bashing their beautiful bodies. God made you so you must be perfect then!!! I want my daughter to grow up knowing natural is beauty and to never let some supposed flaw stop her from happiness and love. I know I am going to enjoy my life and the body I have because one day I will be a lil old lady with saggy boobies and old wrinkly skin and you know what??? I don’t care lol lol I just want to live a happy full life and I won’t waste a second crying over some silly thing like stretch marks!!! I don’t care what the world puts up all over the place of what it thinks women should look like! I am a woman and this is what I look like so I am the right look not some fake bimbo on porn lol. I think all you women are soooo beautiful in your own special way and we should all embrace our special uniqueness!! I also say in the end it won’t be how your body looked that mattered, it will be what you used your body for in life, hugs, kisses, cuddles, to help another in need!!! Besides one day and it’s a fate we will all come too your body will no longer belong to you it will be buried deep within the ground and all along it was just a tool to live life and get all the love and happiness under God as you could!!! I want to say I love you my 3 beautiful angels I am so blessed from God and I love my husband who holds me at night and sees the person I am on the inside, Love me for my heart not my body!!!!

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6 Responses to “Proud Mother of 3 (Ash)”

  1. Jan Says:
    November 28th, 2011 at 1:37 pm

    Great story, thank you for sharing. Your inner beauty shines through. I think that anyone with confidence and self respect is truly beautiful no matter what size they are. And you’re right, in the end, what does it really matter what you looked like? Tight, tiny bodies can’t stay that way forever!!

  2. Sarah Says:
    November 28th, 2011 at 7:41 pm

    What a cute tush and beautiful body you have! And what a sweet baby! I’m glad you posted! :D Keep on being confident. Your daughter will echo that one day. :)

  3. Emily Says:
    December 5th, 2011 at 12:16 pm

    Thank you for your post. Since having
    my 2 kids I’ve hated my body and getting undressed. My husband kept telling me that I was still beautiful to him and that he finds me attractive but I couldn’t believe him. I showed him your post (hope you don’t mind!) saying “look how hot she is and she’s had 3 kids! I hate my body!” His reply was “you look like that”. I was stunned. Thank you for posting because I would still have a warped idea of what I look like.

    I think this site is fantastic and inspiring!

  4. Valerie Says:
    January 15th, 2012 at 7:18 pm

    I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE what you wrote.

  5. Eva Says:
    March 3rd, 2012 at 4:38 pm

    Wow! You are my hero! I am 23, currently pregnant with my third baby (due any day)and I have been feeling pretty hopeless about my body after this one. But you have renewed my hope! You are So beautiful, if my body can bounce back half as great as yours I will be thrilled!

  6. John from UK Says:
    April 21st, 2012 at 6:45 pm

    One simple word, inspired! Thank you x

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