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My Story (Anonymous)

April 27, 2009

(btw my english is not perfect, I live in mexico, but I really love this site and finally I decided to send some photos and share my story, I’m sure that I’ll have some mistakes, so sorry for that)
I’m 19 years old, and I have a 2 year old amazing son. I have to accept that I am young and not mature enough to take care of a child, but he is so incredible that I just love him, he is the only one that make me smile everyday and now I can’t imagine my life with out him.
The father is ..just, I even can call that person a father cause he don’t act as one. I can say he “try” just the day that my baby was born and that was pretty much it. After that he continue being an alcoholic and drug addict that hit me almost everyday. I wasn’t brave enough to tell somebody what was happening until he sent me to the hospital for the 3rd time my mom knew that something wasn’t right and the fake stories about my “accidents” were really stupid, thank God she save us. With out her I’ll be probably dead. At the time diego was 8 months old.
Now I’m used to my body but I’m not ready to show it to the world I just hate the idea of not wearing a bikini anymore and I fell so uncomfortable when I wear dresses or short skirts but luckily for me I have a new boyfriend that loves just the way I am. Now for the first time in years I fell really happy, I love my baby more and more everyday and I totally trust my boyfriend, I know him since I was 13 he has always been my best friend, and he was always been here for me and for Diego.

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7 Responses to “My Story (Anonymous)”

  1. Mary Says:
    April 27th, 2009 at 12:23 pm

    You are so beautiful, and brave! You have a great body and dont even look like you had a baby minus some mommy marks, and yours are very light… that bikini is closer than you think!

  2. shannon Says:
    April 28th, 2009 at 6:21 am

    Those marks will fade given time! You and your baby are gorgeous!

  3. Claire Says:
    April 28th, 2009 at 12:06 pm

    Your son is so sweet he is worth ANY amount of stretch marks. What a cutie! =)

  4. Bridget Says:
    April 28th, 2009 at 2:40 pm

    You’re my leg-stretch mark twin! I hate mine and avoid showing them most of the time but sometimes I don’t care.
    I’m sorry about what you went through but I’m glad you got out of it. You and your boy are gorgeous! I love his hair! Stay strong and know that the stretch marks DO get better!

  5. Rocio Says:
    April 29th, 2009 at 7:23 pm

    Los dos se ven hermosos! Que Dios los bendiga.

  6. Allie Says:
    May 28th, 2009 at 2:05 pm

    Te ves hermosa! Sabes que hay un grupo que ayuda a los famileares de alcoholicos que se llama Alanon. Buscalo en tu area si quieres. Yo vivi en Mexico casi 2 aƱos y habia un grupo en mi area. Suerte!

  7. Pamela Says:
    May 28th, 2009 at 5:01 pm

    Te ves hermosisima!! Yo tengo una nena de 2 anos tambien, y aun ahora me cuesta aceptar mi cuerpo y quisiera ponerme un bikini como antes pero todavia no me siento lo sufficientemente comoda. Las estrias se iran con el tiempo, aun las de tus piernas porque yo tambien tengo y ya se estan notando menos cada dia. Mantente firme como mujer hermosa que sos, y me alegro que no estes en esa relacion abusiva. Que Dios te Bendiga a ti y a ese belleza de nino!! He is super cute!!

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