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My Story (Anonymous)

May 16, 2011

At 19 I found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend (now husband) and I were scared and shocked but we knew we wanted our little Angel. I worked for the first 7 months of my pregnancy as a Driver at a plumbing company. This kept my body in great shape and know one could even tell I was pregnant. Then we moved to PA to be with my family. The last two months I did not do much of anything. As a result my weight sky-rocketed from 135 to 179. I got stretch marks everywhere, thighs, belly, calves. Thankfully I have my sides tattoed with a Phoenix. This helped to hide some of the stretch marks. I also, stupidly left my belly ring in. It is not destroyed. I wear an over the top one simply to hide what damage it did from leaving it in. I had my son vaginally and every part of me felt worn out and ugly. I didn’t want my husband to touch me because I just felt disgusting. Thankfully I did not get postpartum depression very bad. The only thing I was unhappy with was the radical changes my body had endured. At 22 now, my son is 2 1/2 and he is healthy and I have struggled with my weight for quite some time. It was hard to get used to the fact that I was never going to look the same again. Finally I accepted it and decided that although my stomach might not be firm like it used to, my breasts will never be perky like they used to, and the stretch marks will always be there, I decided I didn’t care. I decided that I was still beautiful. I started to slowly work out so I could at least feel healthy again. I am now at 129 and I feel wonderful and I feel sexy again. A feeling that I have been missing since my son was born. This site has helped me to realize that I am not the only one with stretch marks as bad as they are, and I am not the only one thats breasts will never stand like they used to and it doesn’t matter because we are all beautiful and we are all mothers. Thank you so much!!!

FYI: White dress is a year before I got pregnant. Red dress is a year after I had my son, at my wedding. The rest are all current as of now since I have been working out a little more.

Pregnancies: 1
Age: 22
Children 2 1/2 yrs old

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8 Responses to “My Story (Anonymous)”

  1. Marz Says:
    May 16th, 2011 at 9:58 am

    I love your tattoos! When I had my son, I got a tattoo over one hip to cover some of the stretch marks. You look great!

  2. shannon Says:
    May 16th, 2011 at 10:29 am

    You look amazing! Congrats on your new healthy body, and positive body image. Oh, and your stretch marks are so light I can barely see them :)

  3. Julia Says:
    May 16th, 2011 at 12:21 pm

    I am so proud that you were able to pull out of the bad body image mentality! You are so beautiful and have a rockin mom body.

  4. Dee Says:
    May 16th, 2011 at 3:46 pm

    I love your tattoos as well, and your breasts still look damn good to me. You’re definitely a sexy mama. Congrats on your son and healthy body. :) .

  5. amber Says:
    May 17th, 2011 at 6:58 am

    you look amazing. your tats are awesome! — i love your belly!

    blessed and tortured

  6. jenny w Says:
    May 17th, 2011 at 2:48 pm

    You are so beautiful! I am glad you are starting to feel sexy again, it is a feeling every woman should feel. And very sexy tats as well!!

  7. Mason's mom Says:
    May 19th, 2011 at 1:42 am

    I think you look hott! ( =

  8. Amanda Says:
    June 9th, 2011 at 9:50 am

    Hot mama! I love seeing moms with ink. You are gorgeous and your stretch marks are hardly noticeable. You go girl!

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