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Help SOAM

Love SOAM? Has this website made a difference in your life or the way you view your body? Do you know someone who could benefit from visiting this site? You can support us! There are various ways you can help SOAM – some are totally free and involve almost zero effort on your part (that’s my kind of involvement, hah!). Check out the different options below and please consider helping out.

1. You can share the link. Please, take a moment to go to your favorite social media platform (or all of them!) and share the link with your friends and family. The more people that become aware of this, the more change we can make in the world. Seriously. It’s that easy.

2. You can submit your story here. What you share is up to you – always. You can share just a belly, or a full nude photo. Some women aren’t ready to share photos at all yet and they simply write their story. I pretty much never turn anything away and you are guaranteed a safe space here. No trolls allowed!

3. You can share this website with your local news source. SOAM has been featured in many media sources, but we still haven’t heard from NPR or, say, Oprah (*hint hint*). You can usually share links with your local media fairly easily through their Facebook pages, and other sources have contact info on their websites.

4. If you are a WAHM you can donate some of your goods to be used here as giveaways. That benefits you and SOAM! Email me for more info.

5. Currently you can throw some money towards our legal fund designed to protect our brand. Click here. Again, even just sharing the link can be helpful!

6. Soon you will be able to support SOAM through Patreon. I’m working on this and will hopefully have it ready to go by the end of the summer.

7. You can choose to throw some money to us via PayPal (address is theshapeofamother@gmail.com). Because we are not (yet!) a nonprofit, we cannot have a donate button through PayPal, but we can accepts gifts if you choose.

8. Soon you will be able to buy SOAM swag to support us! I am working with a designer to get SOAM an official logo and once that’s complete, I will set up a shop where you’ll be able to buy stickers, totes, t-shirts and mugs. Stay tuned, this will hopefully be up and running by the end of the summer.

9. You can request some free literature that you can share with your local obgyn, midwife, lactation consultant, or baby store. Email me.

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