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From 104-124 (Anonymous)

May 15, 2013

I am 22 years old, just had my first baby 3 months ago. I went from being very skinny my whole life, to having some volume added to my body. I don’t mind the extra weight, but I do mind my belly (look like im 3 months pregnant again), and my breasts (they used to be perky and beautiful, now they look like a used, saggy balloon) I didn’t get any stretch marks until the day before I had my son. Everytime I have sex with my boyfriend I think about my gross body, it doesn’t help that my stitches from the episiotomy hurt like hell when doing it. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves my body [...] Continue Reading…

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Ambivalent Body Image – Struggling (Alanna)

May 13, 2013

Age: 24
1 pregnancy & 1 child
3 year old child

I want to start this off by saying that I have been following SOAM for a couple years now and never felt confident enough to submit my photos. I was in a very unhealthy relationship for 9 yrs with the father of my child. Just before I became pregnant, I was in the best shape of my life, I had never been more confident with my body image. I am a Martial Arts instructor. My pregnancy was extremely stressful, I had a partner who was abusing drugs and other non sense. I’m 5’2 and I weighed 130lbs before I got pregnant. At 9 months with my 8lb baby girl I weighed [...] Continue Reading…

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Watch SOAM on Huffington Post Live

May 10, 2013

I participated in a panel discussion with two SOAM mamas, Autumn (who blogs here) and Tina (who blogs here), today on Huffington Post Live. I have social anxiety issues so stuff like this is always hard for me, but I survived and had a lot of fun, too. It was great getting to talk with Autumn and Tina (we had some time before the show where we hung out in the cyber green room). They are both so easy to talk to! The host, Nancy Redd, was warm and welcoming and seemed to share a lot of SOAM’s values. I’m really interested in checking out her book Body Drama.

You can find the segment here. I hope you watch it [...] Continue Reading…

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