It seems to me that you may have an inappropriate perception of what beautiful should be as far as breasts is concerned; in fact, this seems to be the problem with most women. There is no such thing as the epitome of perfection as far as breasts is concerned. These organs were created for the most important purpose: to noursihs another human being, and they will experience physical changes as they prepare to nurture that new human. Two of those changes is the enlargement of the areolae (brown part surrounding the nipple) and the thickening of the the nipples. Your breasts show those changes very clearly, in addition to the darkening of the whole area. So, your breasts are showing the sings of motherhood, and you know what? They look perfectly fine. I am a woman, and as such I can tell you that you have nothing to worry about. To my knowledge, most men like women with large areolae and thick nipples like yours simply because they represent femininity. Men don’t have large areolae and nipples like women, so they like what they don’t have. Moreover, why should you be wanting to look differently just for the sake of men or others?
Although my breasts are very good looking, they don’t have the attributes that yours do, so if I had the nipples and areolae that you have, I would be even happier! So, there you go! Others want what you hate.