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Who’s This Person? (Anonymous)

I’m 32 years old and 11 months postpartum from my second child (4th pregnancy), my oldest is 3. I don’t know how much weight I gained during my pregnancy but I know I ate far too much. McDonalds, chips, just writing it down disgusted me. I tried training and being nice with myself but it’s hard. I know my body went through a lot in short time so I tried to take easy but it’s hard. No matter what I do the weight won’t come off. Oh well, I have two kids who love my tummy!!!

I don’t know what happened to my breast but they’re completelly different sizes now and I think it’s the thing i’m most self conscious about. I always had small boobs but nw they’re sagging, and weirdly shaped. It’s hard looking in the mirror and not recognize the person who’s starting back at you.

I think all the women here are beautiful but I’m still looking for the beauty in myself.

in Belly, Breasts, Four or More Pregnancies, Mom over 30, Postpartum, Submissions
4 comments… add one
  • Millie Sunday, August 23, 2015, 5:03 pm

    I completely know what you mean when you say you see beauty in others but have trouble seeing it in yourself. For what it’s worth, though, I do think you look beautiful – you remind me of a Renoir painting, which, when I was a little girl and looking through my mom’s books of Impressionist art, I always thought were the height of what beautiful women looked like.

  • Anonymous Thursday, September 3, 2015, 1:35 am

    i agree with Millie,
    Don’t let your insecurities get to you, think of what an amazing thing your body has accomplished – you ARE beautiful!

  • Chloe Wednesday, September 30, 2015, 1:19 pm

    This may sound crazy but I’m on pregnancy number 4 and my children are 3yo, 2yo, and 9 months and I breastfed them all and pumped constantly. I have always worn a size A but had Ds and DDs while feeding so my breasts are back to an A maybe small B and lay completely flat to my body. I think your breasts look fantastic. I would honestly pay someone to make mine look like yours. Lol not joking. I’m just saying for what you could be facing you look fantastic. I do understand it is nothing like what you’re used to but where you are is a really great place!

  • Omaa Wednesday, October 7, 2015, 2:42 am

    You have such great boobs for a mom of 2. I’m a mom of 2 , 4 years and 1year.breastfed both and my boobs are completely flat(sagged). I ll pay to have yours. I understand how you feel because I feel same sometimes bu t then these kids are my pride and joy.

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