I remember being about eight years old and wearing a new bathing suit, feeling like a glorious mermaid princess, and an adult told me I’d better suck in my stomach. My world came crashing down around me – I was utterly crushed. Princess? No. Ugly. Unworthy. Hated.
And from that moment on, my body became my enemy. One comment. That’s all it took.
I suppose it’s not really that simple, though. I was set up. Even that young, surely I heard all the diet ads on TV or in magazines, heard women around me lamenting their bodies, calling themselves fat. My mother did her best to teach me what a real body was like, and to give me a balanced view of my own body, but it just wasn’t enough.
I passionately feel that we need to and hopefully can stop this cycle with the generation we are bringing up. By learning to love ourselves, we can teach our girls to love themselves, and our sons to know what real women are – inside and out. But how?
Do your children have body issues? How have you handled situations like these? What have you done to prevent body image issues? Do you think it has worked? Write in your own blog your thoughts on the matter and then e-mail me with the message title, “SOAM Collaborative” and include:
1. The link to your entry (not the blog’s homepage, but the specific entry).
2. The title of your entry.
3. Your name or username you like to be referred to online.
I will collect all the links and post them in this entry, and place a link somewhere on the sidebar.
Obstructions at the Gate by Helen
At the Public Bath and Letting Go by J Lee
Television, Myself and My Daughter by Ottawa Gardener
The Shape of a Mother by Kathy
The Skin I’m In by Sarah R. Bloom
Body Image by Jamie
Criticize Daughter’s DNA by Tracee Sioux