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Over Two Years Later and Another Baby – Update (Anonymous)

November 20, 2012

Original post here.

It has been over two years since my first submission/story was posted on this wonderful site. My amazing son will soon turn five years old and he is still more than I could have ever hoped and wished for. My husband is still active duty in the Marine Corps and we endured another combat deployment, this time to Afghanistan. It was even harder than the other deployments for a few reasons. One being the communication was almost non existent. We went over a month with no contact due to his location. The second was that I was pregnant during the deployment! We had no clue the day he left, but about a month into the deployment I found out we were expecting. I could hardly believe it. I had to then wait and wait for a rare phone call to finally tell him the news! At my first Dr appt. we calculated that we must have conceived within 7-5 days before he had left! During the second trimester we then found out we were having another boy. Due to some re enlistment/time left on contract issues they had to send him home a few months early (hey no complaints here!!!) I was so beyond relieved to have him home and so happy he would get to be around for the last part of the pregnancy and birth!

I did a bit better with weight gain this time around. Started at 150 lbs and was at 186 lbs day of delivery. Unfortunately I delivered via repeat c section even though the Dr had given me a 75% chance of successful VBAC. The delivery was awful. I had mild Pre eclampsia and they wanted to induce me at 39 weeks. I ended up getting food poisoning/bad stomach virus a few days before my induction date. I was so sick and dehydrated that it was causing me to contract. They admitted me and gave me fluids & anti nausea medication. Then proceeded to start pitocin. Within the first 15 min or so of getting the pitocin the baby had a drop in heart rate severe enough that they told me we HAD to do an emergency cesarean. At that point I was so exhausted that I didn’t even want to talk about it. To top it all off, my spinal did not fully take. I wasn’t “numb” completely and ended up feeling some of the pain from the surgery. They wanted to put me under with a breathing tube but I freaked out on the table and pleaded with them. They instead gave me very strong meds during the rough parts. I felt like Alice falling down the rabbit hole. It was loopy, scary, weird and painful all mixed together, but I was awake to hear his first cry. I was able to see his face and kiss my beautiful baby boy, and that I am grateful for. It was love at first sight. He looked just like his big brother! 7 lbs 1oz and perfect from head to toe!

His 1st Birthday was just a few days ago and I still find it hard to believe he is ONE! I love my boys and I love how they interact together.
As for me and my body these days… I still have work to do… But as I’ve gotten older and possibly wiser lol, I realize that I am not ruined or unsightly. I am a Mother. I am Unique. I am strong, and I am filled with love. How can I hate those things?? I am on the right path I believe. I am now at 156 lbs, with a goal of 140 lbs and 21% body fat. I plan on adding more weight training to my fitness and am excited to find out how my body will react to it.

I’m not sure if I gained any new stretch marks or not.. To me it doesn’t really look like it. Although I do think I have a bit more loose skin now… The wrinkle under my belly button is still there and I have an “apron” when I bend over lol.

I keep saying this lately: “Love conquers all”. I truly believe it too… For whoever may read this far.. All I ask is to love yourself, love who you are, you are one of a kind!

~Age: 28 (will be 29 on Nov 28th)
~Number of pregnancies and births: 2 pregnancies and 2 births
~The age of your children, or how far postpartum you are: 4 years old and 1 year old, 1year postpartum.

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6 Responses to “Over Two Years Later and Another Baby – Update (Anonymous)”

  1. Jaami Says:
    November 21st, 2012 at 10:16 am

    Wow, two kids! Look at you hot momma. I’d love myself if i looked like you as well hahaha, but honestly your point to this story is right on, we are mothers, every change in our body is just a small reminder of that.

  2. Anna Says:
    November 21st, 2012 at 1:05 pm

    You look great! (My post is one above yours) Do you go to the gym? With two kids I am finding I can only get to my DVD workouts.

  3. Amber H Says:
    November 22nd, 2012 at 10:21 am

    :) hopefully this will be me in 9 months and 1 year :) blessed and tortured!

  4. Erin Says:
    November 24th, 2012 at 11:09 am

    You look amazing! What a great stomach! Keep up the good work!

  5. Amber Says:
    November 28th, 2012 at 6:16 pm

    Thank you all for the wonderful comments!
    @ Anna, I don’t go to the gym anymore since having my second child, instead I do workout dvd’s and go for long walks which I like better than the gym anyways lol.

  6. kathleen Says:
    February 25th, 2013 at 9:59 am

    You look incredible!! Good for you! You are already looking toned, but from experience, weight training will take you even farther! Awesome mamma! I bet your hubby thinks you are sexy!!

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