OMG you look GREAT!!!!! I completely understand feeling soft and having the stretch marks. Just know that when you walk around most women out there have the same thing you just cant see under their shirts. I have a 9 month old and am 4 months along with another and I am 31. You heal much slower as you get older!!! Keep your head up and just find what works for you for exercise and don’t lose focus! You will start to feel so much better. Also, if you are concerned about people not being able to love you because of your looks… then they don’t love you. The person you accept in your life someday to love you and your child should love YOU, YOUR PERSONALITY and you should have things in common that you like to do or laugh about. Looks fade over time anyways so that’s not a good thing to fall for each other over. Good luck!!