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My story!! (Anonymous)

July 8, 2007

When I was 15 years old I found out that I was pregnant. The father was a boy whom I had been very good friends with for two years. When I told him, he was fine with it. He said he would be there for me no matter what. I chose to keep my son. I didn’t and still don’t believe in abortion so it was a no brainer. I’m not going to lie…it was hard, my parents drank a lot, and my step-dad continually reminded me that I was a disgrace. My son’s father and I decided to make a relationship and everything seemed good at first. But I was young…my hormones were crazy anyway and he was no help. I’d cry and he’d yell at me for crying. Enough about that. My son, Kyle Thomas, was born on September 25, 2004 weighing in at 7 pounds 6 ounces. He was perfect in every way. His father and I fought a lot and he didn’t spend much time with us. That was probably for the better. When my son was 7 months old his father broke off our engagement. I started dating a great guy named Jacob. Since then he’s been the only dad our son has ever known. My life is great and I couldn’t ask for a better man in our lives.



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5 Responses to “My story!! (Anonymous)”

  1. I-dra Says:
    July 8th, 2007 at 4:55 pm

    how fortunate you are to have such a beautiful, joyful reminder of the difficult choice you made! that is one of the sweetest smiles i’ve ever seen (yours is pretty cute, too)! how could a good mommy ever be a disgrace?

  2. kris Says:
    July 8th, 2007 at 7:13 pm

    Don’t ever listen to anyone who tells you you are a disgrace.Just because it wasn’t planned doesn’t mean that you can’t be a great mom. My mom had me when she was young and she was the best mother in the world! BTW your little one is adorable!

  3. Alexis Says:
    July 12th, 2007 at 9:49 am

    Your son is adorable, you both look so very happy!!

  4. Sarah Says:
    July 13th, 2007 at 6:29 pm

    Sounds like your father was his own disgrace. Thank you for choosing to have your baby! It was definitely the right decision! Where else could you find such a wonderful blessing??? YOUR SON IS BEAUTIFUL!

  5. jayme Says:
    July 11th, 2010 at 2:46 pm

    i had my first when i was 16 and it was a boy the dad walked out on me and hurt my son so i broke that off and got with another guy who is great to me and we are married now and im 21 so i feel you

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