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Mother of Two Baby Boys (Anonymous)

Age: 24
Two Pregnancys/ Two Births.
Children Ages: 2 1/2 & 10 weeks.

I find it pretty hard being 24 and dealing with friends and their perfect bodys in bikinis..their perky boobs, and flat stomachs, lack of stretch marks. My husband says I look great in my body now, but when your not used to something its hard to deal with. Even after 2 1/2 years. With my first son, i gained way too much weight. 53 lbs to be exact. Bringing my 110 lb body up to 163..giving me stretch marks and saggy skin. After an enormous weight battle and approximately 1 year ..I was actually smaller than I was before getting pregnant. But, my body was changed..my boobs sag..my nipples are bigger..i still have the stretch marks..but the worst is the saggy skin/ better known as the muffin top. No clothes seem to complement my body. Its now 11 weeks after my second child. I did well this pregnancy only gaining 23 lbs and i have 5 lbs left to loose to get back to my weight agian..I am starting to accept my post baby body and even wore a bikini to the beach last month. If you dont like it..you dont have to look at it. … Im not always okay with my body in public, but I am trying.

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18 comments… add one

  • Bryana Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 1:11 pm

    You look AMAZING!!! I don’t think I need to say anything else! For 11 weeks PP you look stunning! And I mean that with my entire heart and soul.

  • Mikayla Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 5:23 pm

    Only 11 weeks pp, you truly look amazing!Even if you were 2 years pp you look good. I think your beautiful, and stretch marks fade!

  • Sandra Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 6:59 pm

    Honey, I would rock a bikini every day if I had that body after two kids, especially at just 11 wks pp! You look amazing!

  • Jenn Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 7:46 pm

    Agreed, you do look amazing. I am sooo jealous of that butt! Muffin tops? When I think muffin tops you are not anywhere near what I picture. Seriously you look great!

  • Milk Chocolate Midwife Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 8:23 pm

    You look beautiful. Seriously.

  • jane Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 10:20 pm

    i totally understand what you mean about being around friends and their perfect bodies..

  • Christie Thursday, November 12, 2009, 1:34 pm

    In my book YOU are the mama with the hot body, you look god damn sexy mate! Relax and enjoy your precious kids and gorgeous body :)

  • Sarah Thursday, November 12, 2009, 3:55 pm

    I was almost 20 when I had my son, went from 113 to 201(after) I had him due to severe toxemia. Even a year later when I lost the weight my skin just sucked. But 5 years later I changed my diet and eat fresh foods rather than processed and I look better than I did at 18. You need TIME. You can’t make your skin shape up that fast. It will happen, just don’t dwell on it.

  • Lauren Thursday, November 12, 2009, 8:43 pm

    Wow – people on here talk about finding their ‘body double’ – well, you are mine! I’m 12 weeks pp and your butt and belly look just like mine! I have stretch marks just like the ones on your belly, too. I’m 22, so I completely understand what it’s like to be in a peer group that is still flat-bellied and perky-boobed. It’s down right depressing. I don’t know about you, but my breasts are 90% covered in stretch marks. I don’t feel like I’ll ever get used to it, so I’m kicking my butt in the gym to get it all back in shape.

  • Jasmine Saturday, November 14, 2009, 5:08 am

    Girl you look good. im so freakin jealous. if i had your stomach da wouldnt be able to tell me ish!

  • Me Tuesday, November 17, 2009, 9:49 am

    All of your comments made me have a wonderful day!!! Thanks so much girls. I love this website it makes us mothers that weren’t so lucky with a perfect bounce back body not feel so alone!!!

  • Shannon Tuesday, November 17, 2009, 6:12 pm

    are you kidding????? YOU have that perfect bounce back body…

  • Lauren Thursday, November 19, 2009, 7:01 pm

    You look so awesome! It’s hard to believe you JUST had a baby!

  • m Saturday, November 21, 2009, 2:42 am

    Great job mama!!!

  • sigma888 Tuesday, December 8, 2009, 1:07 pm

    You look a lot like me, but better. We’re lucky we have such supportive husbands. I wish I had an answer to the muffin top. I can get in my prepreg pants, but they fit me funny. You look awesome though!

  • chj Monday, December 21, 2009, 12:09 am

    u look good!

  • cecilia Friday, May 28, 2010, 8:33 pm

    man i HOPE that’s how i look when i’m done with this pregnancy!

  • Jenny Monday, January 3, 2011, 4:28 pm

    You really are hot! I have 2 kids and idk if ill ever be brave enough to wear a bikini again but congrats!

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