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Mother of Twins, I feel so Alone (Linzy)

Hi…i am a mother of twins. Boy girl…love your site. I am a combat veteran and have severe ptsd but along with battle scars are my almost year old twin scars and im seriously trying to gain perspective on this whole body image thing…i love my children but hate myself im freaking out. I started visiting your site when i found out i was pregnant…it really keeps me in check on some days where i feel alone and afraid of my thoughts and feelings esp on being a mother.

I dont have pics before but here im 11 months pp.

My name is Linzy and im 27

Had 1 abortion 2 miscarriages.
All prior to the twins.

in Abortion/Life after Abortion, Belly, Breasts, Child Loss, Postpartum, PTSD, Submissions, Twins

6 comments… add one

  • Nick Monday, November 30, 2015, 4:49 pm

    Hello, my name is Nick and I to am a combat vet. I came on this website to help an ex girlfriend of mine cope with her body image issues. I just wanted to say you have nothing to worry about. And if you need to talk, Ill never turn down helping a fellow soldier.

  • Cristal Connors Tuesday, December 1, 2015, 5:36 pm

    Hi, I just want to say that you look fantastic! Especially after twins! We are all our own worst critics but try to be kind to yourself. Speak about your body the way you want your children to speak about their own bodies one day. It’s not always easy to accept the changes that occur after having been through a pregnancy, but just remember that your body did something incredible by growing and nourishing your sweet twin babies! Best, Cristal

  • Linzy Sunday, December 6, 2015, 6:34 pm

    Hey you guys thank you so much…im enjoying them alot..all of your coments really help.

  • ophelia Saturday, December 12, 2015, 3:31 am

    I wanted to thank you for sharing. I was so much curvier before having kids. I have become thinner after each one & I very much now look like you. I often think I don’t appear very feminine anymore & wish I just had *more* to me. I try, but I also have some thyroid issues I am trying to resolve. And I saw your pictures & thought YOU looked good….so it helps me feel like maybe I am using the wrong lens when I look at me. Love to you. I think we will both me okay.

  • Lindsay Wednesday, January 6, 2016, 12:24 pm

    umm you look GREAT, YOU have a flat stomach I wish I did! jealous!

  • Ashli Friday, September 9, 2016, 8:59 am

    You look freaking fantastic girl! i wish i had your athletic build I am very short and after my pregnancy Now i am also very vuluptious but only on the top part, I look like a reverse pair maybe haha, but i’d kill for your frame and build, I hate having so much to me now its too much for a tiny body. you look amazing girl I hope you’ll be able to see it someday!

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