Your son is adorable! I know how you feel. I gave birth over 4 years ago & I looked just like you. My stomach is identical to yours (shape wise) and with a little bit of effort you can make a big change! One thing that I wanted to share with you that really helped me is I think you should try lace underwear or something that just rests on your skin rather than sink in. I used to wear jeans & undies that were 2 sizes too small for me, leaving me with a ‘muffin top’ after I took them off. Once I went up a size in jeans & undies after about a month my sides were flattened out & smooth. It makes a huge difference & you dont even need to loose a pound. I really hope I could help & I honestly tried typing that in the nicest way. I went through what you went through and I know exactly how you feel. Just wanted to share
My stomach looks just like yours and it’s funny because when I look at yours I think “wow, she is so much more brave than I am to be able to share these photos.” I think you’re beautiful. I wish we could see ourselves the way others see us.