My name is Helen.
I have a website at: http://everydaystranger.net
In October 2007 I gave birth to 36 week boy/girl twins after 5 rounds of IVF. I’ve struggled for years and years with anorexia and purging disorders, and I knew that being pregnant would be hard for me, mentally, as I’ve always had a negative view of my body.
I was lucky enough to not get any stretch marks while pregnant, and in the end I only gained about 30 pounds despite eating constantly (albeit healthily). Within two weeks of delivery I was out of my maternity clothes and back in my regular clothes. Three months on and I’m two sizes smaller than I was when I got pregnant – I’m not actively dieting, but I am taking care of twin infants, which keeps me moving 16 hours a day.
Now that three months have passed, I have a noticeable C-section scar, a still visible linea negra, and my former navel ring piercing is a large scar. I have that apron of skin hanging down, too, which I’ve been working on but suspect it will never really go away. But I am so, so lucky to have beautiful, wonderful babies after trying for so many years.
I’ve included a shot of me the day I gave birth, as well as one of me today – both are watermarked as I had some photos stolen a little while ago and I’m now a little over-protective.
February 4th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
Congratulations on becoming a Mommy!! As a fellow IVF’er, I fully understand what this means to you. After struggling for so long – it’s amazing to finally realize that your dream has become a reality.
You look fantastic. What a cute preggo belly you had!
February 4th, 2008 at 11:48 pm
Wow! You really were so small the day you gave birth! About as big as I was with just ONE baby lol! And your belly now is so flat! I’m jealous! There’s NO apron, by the way! Not at all! Great job, mama!
You look hot!
February 6th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
I ADORE that last picture. Beautiful.
February 18th, 2008 at 9:35 pm
You look amazing!