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Feeling Depressed About Breasts (Anonymous)

November 9, 2008

A lot of you women on here come on here being proud of your bodies and what they have done..which I am.. BUT I can’t help being depressed about my breasts. They seem to sag so much more and I’m afraid of what they will look like after I wean. In these pictures I have just finished nursing on the smaller side.. SO, you can see how much saggier they get when they are not full. Before I was pregnant and breastfeeding (this is my second pregnancy but first time bf) my boobs were a full and perky A cup. They were small but I was happy with the way they look. Now they just sag and even my SO mentioned that they are saggy.. :o ( Just makes me feel so sad. I feel like I am 24 and shouldn’t look like this yet.





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48 Responses to “Feeling Depressed About Breasts (Anonymous)”

  1. Alana Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 10:38 am

    Hey girl…with these perfect boobs….I wouldn’t be surprised if you got hate mail…lol! I’ve nursed 3 kids and my nipples point down…atleast you can still see yours:)

  2. Susanna Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 11:46 am

    I think they look lovely. Mine are much worse in size difference and droopiness. I would kill for my breasts to look like yours. :)

  3. Anon. Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 11:57 am

    Wow, they’re NOT saggy! Please don’t let those breasts get you down; there is absolutely no reason for it.

  4. MommiHailee Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 12:24 pm

    Darling if you think you have saggy boobs then you need to get your head checked! You look GREAT! Try being 20 and only having been able to breastfeed of one side of your chest with 2 different babies for the combined time of 3 yers! My boobs are that of a 50 year old. YOu have nothing to worry about, your boobs looks amazing for a breastfeeding mom!

  5. charlene Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 12:55 pm

    your boobs look awesome! the are beautiful….and i’m not just saying that. I have a’s too and mine don’t look half as good as yours. be proud of them.

  6. Amy Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 12:56 pm

    I think you look great. I’m sure you see a before/after difference, but they look perky to me! I wish mine had looked that good before I got pregnant the first time! lol

    Hang in there. {{hug}}

  7. April Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 1:50 pm

    You look wonderful! I really wish mine looked that good! They look so even toned and perky!

  8. charity Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 1:57 pm

    they look the same to me. i think you look great!

  9. chelsea Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 2:11 pm

    First of all you look awesome. Second of all, I just weaned my three year old (!) and my boobs totally bouced back a few weeks after we finished. They looked way more saggy when I was nursing than they do now. Hang in there, you look fantastic!

  10. mother2 Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 3:39 pm

    Seriously?!?! I think your breast look great AND perky. I would never guessed they had fed a child. Never!

  11. paddfoot Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 3:53 pm

    as a dad and an avid boob lover as well as a real guy, don’t worry, your body is not unusual and always remember, when it counts, your the only naked girl in the room. stay hot

    dan

  12. Chelsey Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 3:55 pm

    Good lord woman!! What I wouldn’t give to have your breasts! They are beeeeeautiful!

  13. linda Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 4:13 pm

    um dos seios mais lindo que já vi aqui.

  14. Lexi Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 4:21 pm

    Those breasts are FAR from saggy!!! My breasts werent that perky BEFORE i had kids LOL

  15. Colleen Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 4:24 pm

    Honey, I don’t know what your S.O. was talking about, but your breasts are NOT saggy. In the slightest. I think they’re that perfect size to give you just enough curve, without the sag.

    I’m also 24, although I haven’t had children yet, and I’m a natural 32F. Gravity and I are not friends, at all. If I don’t have a bra on I can tuck a blanket under my breasts and it stays. So consider me a Sag Master, and I say you don’t have anything to worry about!

    You have beautiful, womanly breasts and you should be proud of them!

  16. Kathy Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 4:27 pm

    I know its hard when you’re sensitive about something to see the same way others do. In your mind, you’re probably feeling like a bit of a grandmother, yes? But I think you have a gorgeous body. You should be proud of your breasts, EVEN when they’re empty. They look great. Your areolas aren’t large, they look well supported and perky, and they still look pretty full even after nursing. You shouldn’t be ashamed to take your clothes off. You look great!

  17. Erin Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 4:56 pm

    they are not saggy at all im 19 and thats how mine look lol there is a difference when they lay differnt than they once did and when they sag if ur nipples point towards the ground they are saggy if the whole breast just lay farther down it doenst mean they are saggy a lot of guys think that is sexy!

  18. MKCC Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 4:57 pm

    You shouldn’t feel down about your breasts.. honestly. I WISH I had breasts like that.
    I’m 19 and have had 2 babies in the space of two years.. and I nursed my oldest to 11 months when she self weaned – and I’m nursing my now 4 month old (hopefully to 18 months.
    I’m happily married to a wonderful man who tells me how beautiful I am everyday despite my negative body image.
    My boobs are like old woman breasts.. actually I could describe them as being like empty plastic grocery bags with just a tiny bit of water in the bottom. Yeah.. gross.
    You should smile.. you are beautiful.

  19. tuesy Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 5:05 pm

    What are you talking about? Your boobs look fantastic!

  20. Liz Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 7:39 pm

    I think you have beautiful breasts, I don’t see that they sag and they’re the perfect size! I truly wish my breasts were like yours – and I haven’t even had children yet! I sport 28DD’s on a petite frame! Don’t compare yourself to how you used to look like, motherhood changed all that (and not for the worse mind you!). Be proud of yourself and give yourself a break, hun! I would personally kill for breasts like yours!

  21. Misty Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 8:31 pm

    I am normally a lurker on this website, but your post made me come out of hiding! Your breasts are in NO WAY saggy! Truly, sweetie, your boobs are very pretty and look perkier than my d-cups that have never gone through pregnancy and breastfeeding. Be proud!

  22. Amanda Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 9:23 pm

    I think your boobs are beautiful. They are doing the job they were intended for, to nourish our wonderful children.

  23. melissa Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 9:34 pm

    honey, you have BEAUTIFUL breasts!!! breasts to DIE for!!! they are perky, round, firm, full and PERFECT!!! im soooooo jealous! now if you want to see some saggy boobs, ill show you mine. trust me, you are NOT saggy.

  24. mari Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 9:45 pm

    I have to say that I’m shocked you think your breasts are anything but gorgeous. I don’t think they look saggy at all. I would love to have breasts like yours after two kids! I only have one child and my breasts aren’t as perky as yours.

  25. Tanya Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 10:37 pm

    They are gorgeous dont worry I can’t believe how firm they look wow!!!!!!!

  26. Shealene Says:
    November 9th, 2008 at 10:39 pm

    You’re upset about your boobs…you should see mine…I have 50 year old woman boobs and I’m 22…hm. I don’t mind them though, I’m kinda happy that they’re not as big as they were before I was pregnant. I hated having huge boobs…even though they’re a tad droopy, my back doesn’t hurt and I can wear a lot of different shirts without feeling overexposed. Anyways, you have good boobs! And I think they’ll look good after you’re done breastfeeding!

  27. Mama Says:
    November 10th, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    Are we looking at the same pictures???

  28. Mama Says:
    November 10th, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    To clarify, that was meant for the poster. They are not at all saggy. In fact, they’re ridiculously taut and beautiful!

  29. John Says:
    November 11th, 2008 at 10:37 am

    You have beautiful breats and they do NOT sag – be proud of your body and feel blessed

  30. summer Says:
    November 11th, 2008 at 11:50 am

    when the pictures first came up I thought they were the “before pregnancy” pictures. I kept scrolling down to see if my computer just didn’t load the “after” ones.

    Not to worry sister. Get happy with them now before you are in your later years lamenting how perky your body used to be and why didn’t you appreciate it then?

  31. Rachele Says:
    November 12th, 2008 at 11:44 pm

    Seriously?! You have pretty, perfect boobs if you ask me! I’d love to have nipples that point forward instead of down at my toes. You have Gorgeous breasts, and your SO is either not good at cracking a joke or just way too familiar with itty-bitty-titties, cause those are NOT saggy in the slightest. I doubt a surgeon would even say those are saggy. I’m ‘blessed’ with 42″DDs and breastfed two children, trust me, I know what saggy looks like and mine weren’t that perky pre-pregnancy!

  32. Jamie Says:
    November 13th, 2008 at 2:11 am

    Are you SERIOUS!? Your lovely breasts are not saggy AT ALL! I would kill for perfect breasts like yours!

  33. Megan Says:
    November 16th, 2008 at 8:37 am

    I’ve never had kids and my breasts look like that and I’ve always thought I have fabulous breasts. They’re my favourite part of my body! Yours look just fabulous!

  34. rose Says:
    November 19th, 2008 at 8:51 pm

    im jealous!! theyre perfect!!

  35. rose Says:
    November 19th, 2008 at 8:54 pm

    p.s. i see no sagging whatsoever, honestly!

  36. SAMERA Says:
    November 28th, 2008 at 4:28 am

    OMG they are NOT SAGGY at all they are perfect i mean it, GOD i have 2 kids and i have stopped breast feeding 2 months ago my boobs have shrunk and are so small now and saggy i am sooooo desperate to have plastic surgery its really affecting my confidence i wish i had yours any day! it actually looks like you had your boobs done WOW ur soooo lucky

  37. Anette Says:
    December 2nd, 2008 at 12:51 pm

    Seriosly, I was waiting for some after-pics but they never came. Your boobs look normal!

  38. aimee Says:
    December 2nd, 2008 at 1:35 pm

    umm, you have greattits and i will trade with you anyday!!! and yours barely sag…a little sag is good though, dont want them tight up against your chest,lol…serioulsy you have great boobs and im jealous!

  39. David Says:
    December 3rd, 2008 at 6:38 pm

    I’m a man. I normally wouldn’t admit that in a comment because I would expect that this forum is intended to be a no-boys-allowed zone. But I just had to say this: from a man’s perspective you have very beautiful breasts. If your man told you that you’re sagging, there must be something wrong with his eyesight. I would never have guessed that you’re 24 years old with two kids; you have the body of an 18 year old.

  40. magali Says:
    March 14th, 2009 at 11:47 pm

    what re you talking about lol? you look great

  41. Elisa Says:
    March 29th, 2009 at 9:51 pm

    dear, I AM 24 and believe me, I wish my boobs were as beautiful as yours. AND I’ve NEVER been pregnant! Because I lost a lot of overweight very quick when I was 19 (just happened naturally :O) I have it all, the sagginess, the big nipples, the stretch marks… and you know what, my boyfriend happens to LOVE my boobs just the way they are. :) as for myself, it’s MY boobs, I accept them the way they are. It’s OK not to have the perfect sylicon breasts, you know. :)

  42. Brittany Says:
    May 28th, 2009 at 4:39 pm

    Hey sweetie, hate to break it to you but that’s the result of breastfeeding. I breastfed exclusively for six months and mine went from being a very perky full B-cup to a saggy, stretch-marked A-cup.

  43. velisha Says:
    June 7th, 2009 at 5:41 pm

    Hey,
    Now you have perfect breats. Enjoy them now! I did too when I was pre-pregnancy and while breastfeeding. I don’t want to dissapoint you, but they may look much worse after you wean. That’s what had happended to mine. May be not.

  44. jusme Says:
    July 29th, 2009 at 9:25 am

    oh godd… there great .. im 17 i have somthing way worser then that do u understand some people have boobs that are just flaps of skin with strech marks and no fill in them just skin flaps yeah i mean throw over ur shoulder tits … i honestly wish i had those

  45. Jim Says:
    January 6th, 2010 at 9:29 am

    Come on now! Your breasts are beautiful. I am SO tired of these fake breasts everywhere in this world. You have nothing to be depressed about. They look natural and much more of a turn on than all those rocks that sit on the chest like cheap balloons. Have a great Day!

  46. Lete Says:
    February 22nd, 2010 at 3:38 am

    They are saggy??!!
    You’re Kidding me.
    Wish I had those.

  47. NA Says:
    March 20th, 2010 at 11:28 pm

    Haha I am not even pregnant nor have been but I would kill for such perky boobs!

  48. anon Says:
    August 11th, 2011 at 4:06 pm

    I’m 32 weeks, first pregnancy and I would kill to have EVER had breasts like that. left nipple totally points down, i have no roundness whatsoever, you’re a lucky one so appreciate it. or, you could trade me and I will appreciate the HELL out of those boobs.

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