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Comfortable in a new body? (Anonymous)

October 11, 2011

I never thought I’d be posting on a website like this. Don’t get me wrong I don’t mean that in a bad way I just assumed I would be one of those lucky few women who bounced right back after having a baby. You know no stretchmarks, toned and taut tummy less than 6 months PP? With every new stretch mark I found on my belly during pregnancy I got sadder and sadder. What a cruel joke, I thought, to get stretchmarks @ 35 weeks in my pregnancy. After all I went 8 1/2 months without getting them! After I had my son and I first saw my PP body I just about fainted. Where was the pretty flawless tummy I use to have? Whose body was this in the mirror with the sagging and stretchmarks all over it? I felt gross, disgusting, and not beautiful. I didn’t even want my husband to touch me. The only part of my body I was happy with ironically was my vagina which held very well after an easy vaginal delivery. Well 5 months PP after the stretchmarks have faded (yea they still have a lot of fading to do but overall 100% better than right after birth) and the saggy, jiggly stomach has shrunk and attempted to bounce back to its previous state. I realized my body is just as beautiful now as it was before. I have carried life inside me and it was a blessing and such a beautiful gift. The stretchmarks, yea, they’ll never go away but each time I look at them I’ll smile and think of the little kicks and nudges that used to be inside me. The breasts, yea, they’re saggier and not as perfect and I am contemplating a boob job but I look at my son and realize I wouldn’t do a thing differently if it meant not having him here with me and healthy. I still have a long way to go but slowly and surely I am getting comfortable with my new body.

Age: 25
Number of Pregnancies and Births: 1
Age of Children: 20 weeks
Weeks Post-Partum: 20 weeks

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3 Responses to “Comfortable in a new body? (Anonymous)”

  1. amber Says:
    October 11th, 2011 at 11:43 am

    only 20 weeks pp- your stretchies will fade and your tummy will get smaller- your uterus is still shrinking! go girl!

  2. Ashley Says:
    October 12th, 2011 at 12:15 am

    Your stretchmarks aren’t that bad and yes, they will fade a lot more. I don’t think your stomach looks saggy either. It’s only been 5 months, you look great :)

  3. trish Says:
    December 14th, 2011 at 11:14 pm

    I was worried about droopy boobs after my first, but they disappeared for a while! I am glad they returned later on, the shock was too much at the time. I did not know that could happen, i had never heard of that until then. I was only 34A before the pregnancy, i did not want to lose that. But the second baby left me with too much for a while, exercise helped each time.

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