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August 13, 2006

This site has done wonders for my body image. When I got pregnant with my now 24 month old daughter, I weighed 125lbs. During that pregnancy I was basically a couch potatoe and constantly snacked, resulting in an astonishing 75lb weight gain. I hated my body, I got stretch marks on my belly, legs, and arms. After my daughter’s birth I had to work extremely hard to lose the weight. I went on Weight Watchers and got down to 145lbs, then went back up to 150/155lbs when I got pregnant again. This pregnancy I have been much smarter, eating healthier, excercising, etc. So far I have gained 40lbs less that what I gained in my first pregnancy. I feel good, I don’t hate my body, and I feel a LOT healthier than I did during my first pregnancy. My body image is also a lot different. I only have new stretch marks on my tummy, and I am proud of them, I think of them as badges of honor. My breasts are saggy from nursing my first daughter, but I couldn’t be more proud of them either, I think of them as working breasts. My husband, daughter, and I went to the beach a few weeks ago and after about ten minutes of awkwardness I had no problems wearing my bathing suit. I read your site all the time, and it has definately helped change my perspective on my body….now I don’t see myself as having a “fat” body, but instead view myself as a vessel of life. Thank you for this site.

This picture of me was taken this morning, I am 35 weeks pregnant.


Side view


In this picture you can see my new “badges of honor” on my tummy. The ones from my first pregnancy have faded to a silvery white and are not really visible.


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7 Responses to “Anonymous”

  1. Drea Says:
    August 14th, 2006 at 9:24 am

    I think you have a very pretty round belly. It looks so cute.

  2. Kate Says:
    August 14th, 2006 at 1:57 pm

    I think you look beautiful. I was looking thinking.. man, I’d definitely be happy wearing my swimming togs if my body looked like thise. :-) Funny how we all feel differently about our bodies!Good luck for your labour and birth.

  3. Anonymous Says:
    August 14th, 2006 at 2:24 pm

    You look fantastic !!

  4. Manic Mom Says:
    August 14th, 2006 at 3:20 pm

    You have a great PREGGY figure!!

  5. The Queen Beoutch!! Says:
    August 14th, 2006 at 7:22 pm

    You so rock the pink panties!! Gorgeous!

  6. Diva Says:
    August 19th, 2006 at 2:35 am

    You look gorgeous, here’s to a great birth experience and a wonderful body image for you!!! :)

  7. Maelynne'sMOm Says:
    August 25th, 2006 at 2:30 am

    I agree with everyone you look sooo good, in fact I wish I had a baby belly right now, maybe you’ll see me up there pretty soon!


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