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Anonymous

January 5, 2009

i’ve been visiting this site for nearly two years now and, since the beginning, i’ve wanted to submit my story. i am a 30 year old mother to two sons, aged 3 and 18 months. we are currently expecting our third baby, through international adoption. my husband and i were married in june of 2004, and two months later we found out that we were pregnant with our first child. i was, on my wedding day, *thinner* than i’d ever been since high school, weighing about 135 pounds at 5’7″. very quickly, in pregnancy, (many thanks to emotional eating coupled with milkshakes, and peanut butter m&ms) i gained nearly 80 pounds. somehow, i thought that all of my pregnancy weight would just “melt away.” my lowest weight between baby number 1 and baby number 2 was 152 pounds. now, a year and a half after the birth of our second child, i weigh about 13 more pounds than i did the day we were married, when i was at my *thinnest.* today, i am stronger than ever before. in may, i completed my first half marathon (something i NEVER could have done when i weighed 135 pounds.) i’ve run over 500 miles in the past year. i’m currently training for another 13.1 mile race, and i’m working towards a 200 mile, 10 person relay. while i don’t absolutely love the body that i see in the mirror every single day (especially not its stretch marked tummy or “pancake-y” breasts) i stand in awe of what it has accomplished; my body carried two strong, healthy baby boys to 41 weeks and 2 days (each!), it endured two natural childbirths (the first one totaling about 20 hours, with nearly 4 hours of drug free pushing!), it’s nourished and sustained and comforted and carried and protected two amazing little boys who are in love with every single inch of their mama. and, it’s being loved now, by my husband, like it’s thinner self never would have dreamed possible. (my body truly is a wonderland.) as i wait, now, for my third child to come home to us, i realize that there is so much more to the shape of a mother than her outstretched stomach, her rippled thighs, her c-section scar or her wrangled belly button. what’s more important are the marks left, the changes made, inside of her. while i may not be showing, my heart is fully expecting.





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14 Responses to “Anonymous”

  1. magali Says:
    January 5th, 2009 at 10:57 am

    you look goergous

  2. Brandy Says:
    January 5th, 2009 at 12:21 pm

    This is one of my favorite posts.

  3. Berni Says:
    January 5th, 2009 at 2:02 pm

    Sexy Mama!! You look great for 30 and 2 kids!! You write beautifully…

  4. chelsea Says:
    January 5th, 2009 at 3:22 pm

    You go girl!!! I’m now 7 months, 24 years old, also an avid runner! After i got pregnant, i stopped running for fear of misscarriage, but i was also training for a half before pregnancy, and one of the worst things about my pregnancy has been not running. I do brisk walking but theres nothing like a runners high!
    You look fantastic! You should be soooo proud! I LOVE you in that matalic dress too! Thanks for sharing! You inspired me!

  5. nina Says:
    January 5th, 2009 at 8:48 pm

    you are a smart, articulate and wise woman with a gorgeous body. i am so proud of you.

  6. krista Says:
    January 6th, 2009 at 12:25 pm

    beautiful. inside, outside… what i already knew.

  7. Jody Says:
    January 6th, 2009 at 1:11 pm

    You are awesome! I agree with Brandy, this is one of my favorite posts to date!

  8. Eddie Says:
    January 6th, 2009 at 5:31 pm

    I absolutely love your post. It made me smile the whole time I was reading it. You are such an inspiration. Those little boys and your husband are blessed to have you in their lives!

  9. Natalie Says:
    January 6th, 2009 at 5:46 pm

    OH MY – i have read other posts where people say it is like looking in the mirror, and it is funny bc I read your post first and thought how similar to me (several similarities!) and then scrolled down and really thought it was like looking at myself!

  10. Brittany Says:
    January 6th, 2009 at 11:42 pm

    You should be so proud of yourself. That post was truely inspiring.

  11. sunshowers Says:
    January 8th, 2009 at 2:40 am

    You are so inspiring!!!

  12. Lucy Says:
    January 8th, 2009 at 9:01 am

    WOW your husband is sexy !

  13. Vikell Says:
    January 9th, 2009 at 8:57 am

    yeah, I agree with Lucy your hub is hot! And so are you so you make a really good-looking couple. ;)

  14. Brandy Says:
    May 10th, 2010 at 10:26 am

    You look amazing! To me you look like what we should all look like. Strong, capable and proud..

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