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29 years old, 10 1/2 months post partum after first child (Anonymous)

October 24, 2008

I had a really hard time accepting my body after pregnancy, and still am having a tough time. I look at this site as often as I can and it makes me feel better that I’m not alone and that most people who have children don’t just bounce back immediately. This website gives me a great sense of comfort and community.

I was 163 lbs right before giving birth. And now I weigh 144 at 5’4″ tall. I am still trying to lose at least 10 more lbs but the weight is not coming off easily. I exercise at least three times a week, and I’m eating healthier than ever before. I got a moderate amount of stretch marks during pregnancy (and puberty!) despite using revitol, coco butter, petroleum jelly, vitamin E, and aloe religiously in the last few months of pregancy and mustela for a few months after. I have them on my sides and below my belly (and on my hips, thighs, and butt from puberty). They have now mostly faded.

The pictures I have included are of me sitting down. I still have a pooch, but I guess I always will. I want more children, but I’m scared of what I’ll look like after that. That fear won’t prevent me from having more children, though, because the joy of having a child far outweighs the scars I will bear from having them. But I’m afraid nonetheless. I guess I will just have to grin, exercise, eat well, and bear it!

My daughter is the love of my life. This has been the best and most fulfilling year of my life. I see older women fuss over my child, and I know they are remembering when their children were babies. I see the nostalgia in their eyes. It’s as if they are remembering the first time they fell in love. I am in love with my baby girl. I try to treasure each moment I have with her because who knows what tomorrow will bring.

As much as I struggle with my body, I cannot wait to have another child. I know I will keep struggling, but I know must of us will agree that it’s completely worth it.




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9 Responses to “29 years old, 10 1/2 months post partum after first child (Anonymous)”

  1. mother2 Says:
    October 24th, 2008 at 4:27 pm

    Dang. I wish I looked as good as you do!

  2. Anon... Says:
    October 24th, 2008 at 5:36 pm

    Oh my gosh! I’d give a lot to look like you. You’re still hot. You have NOTHING to be concerned about.

  3. MilkMama Says:
    October 29th, 2008 at 10:50 am

    All I see is a taut tummy and beautiful skin. Maybe you should see the same thing that we’re looking at? A beautiful woman!

  4. samera Says:
    October 30th, 2008 at 10:09 am

    i agree i wish i had your tummy your soooooo lucky

  5. Smooshie Says:
    October 30th, 2008 at 5:01 pm

    You look better now than I did before I was pregnant. You’ve got a great body – be proud of it! And as for the stretch marks… my attitude is that they’re a reminder of the awesome thing my body did and I wear mine proudly. I don’t think they’re ugly at all, they’re something to be proud of. It’s all about attitude and how you look at them. :)

  6. diane Says:
    November 6th, 2008 at 2:00 pm

    while i was reading your post, i swore i had written it myself: same height, same pre pregnancy weight, same age and same pp time (10 months). unfortunately, not the same pp weight and not the same body. you look awesome! its in our nature that we’re never happy and the grass is always greener but please find some comfort in that you’ve not only lost your baby weight, you’ve lost 20 more pounds on top. keep it going and even if you don’t hit that number on the scale, at least you have your glat tummy :)

  7. diane Says:
    November 6th, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    doh, crying baby equals typo. glat=flat :)

  8. Shawna Says:
    June 29th, 2009 at 8:39 pm

    Wow, that’s like NOTHING! Lucky gal!

  9. rayvonne Says:
    January 6th, 2012 at 1:16 am

    i wish i looked like you . i weighed 170 before birth lost 20 pounds after birth and now i weigh 175 . your lucky

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